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Crash Through — Don’t Quit!

All of us have quitting points in our lives — those times or situations that become so overwhelming or challenging that we simply quit. No matter what you call them — brick walls, insurmountable obstacles, predictable or complete surprises, financial crises — things will never change if you don’t acknowledge they’re real. A key to overcoming the desire to quit is to identify those “brick walls” and then figure out how to crash through them.

What past circumstances and situations have caused you to throw in the towel and turn to credit as the easy way out? Perhaps it was Christmas or vacation or your fickle feelings of dissatisfaction when you saw what others had that you wanted.

Once you discover your quitting points, preparation is key in dealing with them. You have to do this ahead of time, not at the moment you come face-to-face with the overwhelming desire to quit.

It takes practice to crash through. Let’s say you identify the holidays as a time you are likely to give up and give in to credit. Year after year, even though you say it will never happen again, you end up shopping with your credit cards, promising that “this will be the last time ever.”

Now it’s summer, and you’ve still not paid the bills from last Christmas, even though the gifts are long forgotten and the season is but a foggy memory. The load of debt has become a pile of resentment and something you’d rather not think about. Now is the time to practice crashing through that quitting point, because next Christmas will be here before you know it.

Using the Christmas example, you can decide to start earlier. Make a commitment now as to how much cash you will spend, and promise that you will not go over that amount. Period.

Start planning. Now, while the holidays are not breathing down your neck and robbing you of your good sense, is the time to practice crashing that quitting point. Figure out what went wrong last year, what you will do to change things this year. Anticipate. Prepare. Shop early. Consult with your inner creative to come up with new ideas. There are dozens of things you can do to get in shape for that particular quitting point.

Perhaps your quitting points are not seasonal but come more regularly — attached to weekly or monthly commitments. Identify these; be honest with yourself. What can you do to make the money stretch farther this week? You know when the rent or mortgage payment is due. Get ready for it by doing whatever you must to cross that finish line.

Ahead of these quitting points, practice crashing through the difficult time you know is or could be on the way.

Practice rejecting attitudes of defeat. With intention, replace them with appropriate thoughts and behaviors. Know exactly what you will do even when you don’t feel like it. Like when every emotion in you suggests that a bit of retail therapy, credit card in tow, will make you feel better.

Gather all the determination you have to crash through your quitting points. Each time you do, it will be easier to do it the next time. Soon it will become a habit on which you rely, and then you will begin to experience tremendous tenacity to never quit!

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Mary Hunt

Mary invites you to visit her at EverydayCheapskate.com, where this column is archived complete with links and resources for all recommended products and services. Mary invites questions and comments at https://www.everydaycheapskate.com/contact/, "Ask Mary." Tips can be submitted at tips.everydaycheapskate.com/ . This column will answer questions of general interest, but letters cannot be answered individually. Mary Hunt is the founder of EverydayCheapskate.com, a frugal living blog, and the author of the book "Debt-Proof Living."

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